I saw this article/video this morning. In itself it is interesting and I think many of us understand how this man felt when finding his wife on a dating site.
But what was even more interesting to me were the comments about the article. A lot of men commenting on having been cheated on and how hurt and betrayed they felt.
On my blog here, I get a lot of women readers and seekers as shown to me by my blogger stats. The search words and phrases that land people on my blog are searches about cheating husbands...even though I have cheating spouses as tag words on my entries.
And we all know that women cheat too, though I am guilty of seeing all men as potential cheaters. So it was a needed reminder for me to read about men having the same hurt feelings and betrayal as I have felt.
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Sunday, February 24, 2013
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
The Other Woman, Cell Phone, Email
Some of you may know the feeling you got when you found your spouses other cell phone or email. That sinking energy draining feeling of falling.
I had forgotten that feeling, I had become complacent because I have to admit that I would miss my husband terribly if he were gone.
But it all came crushing down on my the other day. He asked me to do something for him on his computer....even gave me the sign in and password to a new email he had to make for a particular site (a non dating site). Before I sat down to do it for him I had an errand to run. The feeling that sank into my gut as I was running the errand drained me. I had forgotten how horrible I had felt the first time I found the dating email in his "other" email. The email he had for 6 months before I found out about it.
I have been living in a delusion. He's been so good lately. To my surprise he had given up a weekly opportunity that gave him a chance to be online privately. The time he had been using to check his dating profiles, or make new ones. He had bought me gifts I had really been wanting. He hadn't bought me gifts in years.
Sure, I had fallen in to the luke warm, brain numbing waters of denial. I had fallen willingly.
But those awful feelings I had while running that errand. Later I found out that the new email really was new...only hours old. But of course that doesn't change anything.
Where do I go with this? I don't know.
Until next time,
Jane
I had forgotten that feeling, I had become complacent because I have to admit that I would miss my husband terribly if he were gone.
But it all came crushing down on my the other day. He asked me to do something for him on his computer....even gave me the sign in and password to a new email he had to make for a particular site (a non dating site). Before I sat down to do it for him I had an errand to run. The feeling that sank into my gut as I was running the errand drained me. I had forgotten how horrible I had felt the first time I found the dating email in his "other" email. The email he had for 6 months before I found out about it.
I have been living in a delusion. He's been so good lately. To my surprise he had given up a weekly opportunity that gave him a chance to be online privately. The time he had been using to check his dating profiles, or make new ones. He had bought me gifts I had really been wanting. He hadn't bought me gifts in years.
Sure, I had fallen in to the luke warm, brain numbing waters of denial. I had fallen willingly.
But those awful feelings I had while running that errand. Later I found out that the new email really was new...only hours old. But of course that doesn't change anything.
Where do I go with this? I don't know.
Until next time,
Jane
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